Pippin, you mentioned being a photographer, I should have had you take my wedding photos(I've seen some of your work and it is great), the guy the "mother in law" had take them wasn't worth it.
Hell my ex-wife didn't even want them after the divorce!!!
What does that say about the quaility? The Ex always wants everything

But the point I had was I already paid him for the originals, but I couldn't make copies of it because they "belonged" to him, I wasn't going to sell them but give them to family.
I did find out though he had a couple that looked really good, that he didn't give us! He was using them for advertising in his studio, seems he didn't get our permission to use our likeness for profit or advertising, so he had to remove them, I was just pissed that the two good pictures we didn't get!
So in some ways he has all rights too the photos and in other ways he doesn't, too frickin confusing

And I assume this is different in various parts of the world, and maybe even in different States?