yeah, i could do that, but i like the added realism of the traffic being there
Ahh, me too, but here's the way I look at it-I like the utmost in realism. Is it realistic that ATC would let another aircraft jump ahead of you? The answer is no! Therefore, you are allowed to cheat and get rid of him in order to make it
more realistic.
I apply the same rul to using spot view to taxi into a gate (I ALWAYS fly from the cockpit); in real life, there'd be someone there helping me.

I doubt you'll be able to find another ATC program for a game that already has ATC
