Like Ozzy says, "approach from the stern". All ArrCab carriers default into the wind for traps.
When lining up on the deck, from way out, start your approach from about 1500 ft. The deck altitude is only about 100 ft. Your glideslope shoud be shallow and consistant, all the way down. DO NOT DIVE FOR THE DECK AT THE LAST MINUTE!! Much better to wave off and go around, than to push a bad approach.
Another big help is to use the default carrier off of San Diego, Ca. There's an active Meatball on deck that helps give you a good idea of how your approach is.
There's a E-2C Hawkeye that's stable and fairly easy to land, (if there is such a thing), in the SimV Military section.
http://www.simviation.com/fs2000military19.htmAnd also, a T-45 Goshawk, that's a good trainer. But, I'd recommend a different panel.
http://www.simviation.com/fs2002military28.htmGood luck!
