Ok #1 make sure you find a good patient 

 flight instructor.Try to find one who has been instructing for a long time 

 this will tell you he loves to teach. 

 There are instructors out there who only instruct to build time 

 and go to the airlines. You don't need this kind of instructor 

 The airlines can be a back stabbing  :(job.Pilots will screw over you 

 yep thats right they are out there. Corporate is the way to go. 

I have been flying for 20 years 

 as a flight instructor,corporate and charter pilot and love it 

.Go to your local Fix Base Operation (FBO) and get a older Instructor who loves to fly AND who has a lot of patient 

Keep in mind going to big flight schools is not always the way to go.Go to college and get your degree  it does not matter what.As and instructor I have students now flying corporate,military and airlines so go get it.Make sure the instructor will listen to you and help you.You will know because he will go the extra mile for you. 
