Okay y'all, thanks for all the feedback... some nice screenshots in there too! I'm happy to announce that I picked up a Nvidia GeForce 8400GS, it's nothing to high end but better than the standard built-in Intel thing I had before. What really thru me off was that they both have the same video memory, but the GeForce is way better... Then I installed acceleration, and as far as I can tell so far everything is running tip top... I've tested most of the problem areas, and they're no longer problems (even the audio stuff). I'll add that I've got my scenery, traffic, framerates, etc... all set pretty high... not quite maxed but close... runs about as smooth as FS9 did!
Surprisingly no power issues either! I was mildy frustrated there for a while, but in trying to fix the problem I discovered this site, which is cool... so it worked out... Now if you'll excuse me I have a 727 to land in a blizzard in my native Buffalo-Niagara.