What I'm looking for is a book that teaches the good computer 'moves'.
We'd all like to help, olderndirt, but I for one can't work out what you mean by 'the good computer moves.' Generally speaking, the computer just runs the game; for the flying controls, the joystick and throttle cover a lot of it and the rest of the inter-action' with the computer is a matter of keystrokes.
Press 'Alt/Aircraft/Kneeboard/Keys' for a list of those, or alternatively look anything you're not sure of up in the Learning Centre. Or do some of the lessons, the early ones are quite good.
Maybe give a couple of examples of things you're not clear on?