GOT IT!
Well I got it working today...first off my duuumas self didint read the seagate manual fully and missed the part about running the HD setup utill

...so I ran that and it still did not work on the SATA 1 port so I tried it on the RAID port, so I created an array, installed the drivers and no go so im lookin in the BIOS and I find the Parallel Ports Disabled, Enable it set it to 378 save it and we are in business. So here is what I had to do, run the Seagate Setup Utility, Have the SATA drive on RAID 0 Port, Create an RAID array, install RAID drivers in windows set up, then windows finnaly detected it then I formated, made the Promise Raid drivers disk installed that and walla all done, took me long enugh what a simple and stupid soulution I shoulda had worked out the first day!!
