Bub: a 2 story addition that cost me a year of "free" time when I was working 60HR weeks about 25 years ago cured me of that work...no big projects now. Good Luck!
TR: ridding myself of the scumbag's junk. Lost interest in sharing creative side. Besides, I'm worried about posting something and spreading the infection. The experience taught me NO ONE is whom they seem.
What kind of person goes after your wife's email when they can't destroy you?
Free advice to all: Don't skype/share files with "friends" who want to help you, they are scumbags, or protect scumbags.