Yeah, mines always full realism. Except when I'm flying for fun.
Excellent :) Now.. here's an assignment for you. Have an adult take you to your nearest, small airport. Find the office or a flight club and tell them you're planning on learning to fly as soon as you're able.. See if they'll give you an old VFR sectional for your area to practice with.
Fire up the sim (C172 only for now) and use that airport as your base for training. At first, just practice taking off; flying a traffic pattern and making safe landings. Mix in some winds and keep at it until you're doing it all, barely having to think about it.
Next.. start using the sectional to plan flights to nearby airports. No GPS or auto-pilot allowed... it's just you, your piloting skills and your navigational radios.. just like real life.
We'll leave at that for now... I'm sure you'll have questions.. If you can stick with it and take it seriously, we're all here to help..