If I don't get this fixed, I am gonna break.......

Somebody please give me some help with this one. I have a HP 8550MHZ PIII running ME. I bought a USB Sidewinder Precision 2 a few months ago and it still won't work. When you go to the Game Controlers menu the only option for joystick ports is the joystick port, no USB. Therefore, the computer cannot recognize that the stick is connected and the software won't install. Everything I own is USB and it all works, except for this. Plese give me a solution or even a possible solution. 
