Yes, definetely this is a money pit....lol
Glad to hear that you can manage with both hands, in fact, I am a left-hand writer but for all the rest I'm right handed.
It would be useful if we can have more opinions because I think this is an issue, not only for me (I want to change joystick because I think about a particular distribution of my desk-cockpit) but for all the people that care for the ergonomic question.
As for the near future, I will have the pedals from Santa this Xmas...

(good boy, kept my lady satisfied) so I will leave the joystick question for..... let's say Valentine's Day (It is going one hell of a job) but it is something that definitely I have on my mind.
In your case, you seem pretty decided for the X-45 thingy, are you on fighters? I prefer the airliners so a HOTAS is out of question, but i would like to know your opinion (or everyone else's opinion).
Many thanks and good night