I don't think I would use the loss of life by the Military, (in any country), as an excuse to use the Flight Simulator for an on-line Air Show.
Just organise the usual Multiplayer Air Show, (which we usually do), but involving Military-type Aircraft instead of Civilian Aircraft....

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Personally, I don't like the thought of involving real life Military "disasters" into a GA/Commercial Flight Simulator.
I like all aspects of the M$ Flight Simulator for its "enjoyment/fun" factor!...

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...just my thoughts!...

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Paul...G-BPLF...FS 2004...FS Nav...and a Sopwith Camel stripped of its weapons...

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