Help Keep disconnecting

[Drastic]

help me please i can connect to internet sessions but i get about 30secs of flying before the host disconnects me it happens on every server i try i dont have a firewall up but im connected threw a router

[Scottler]

Disconnect the router.

[Drastic]

i need the router im connected of my buddys comp at his house though

[Scottler]

If you can bypass it somehow, do so.  99% of all the problems in multiplayer are the result of the router.  I don't use one, so I couldn't begin to tell you how to do it.  (Despite what another member here may try to tell you, I don't use a router, I use a hub.)

[eno]

OK ........... the router needs to be configured to allow both comps to connect to the multiplayer session.

You dont say which FS your trying to use this is important as different ports need to be redirected.
Check out the link below for a previous more detailed answer.
http://www.simviation.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi?board=Multi;action=display;num=1088564097;start=0

if you need more help give me a shout
cheers
eno