I understand connection via the Internet and connection via your local area network but a recent article implies that you can connect directly over the Internet if you know your Host's IP and he begins a Session. I have Hughes IP and my buddy has a DSL IP. He found HIS IP by going to www.yourip.us ..... I then pinged him and got a response. He can ping me. We both disabled our Firewalls just in case ... but so far ... no hook up. He goes into Local Area Network under Multiplayer and Hosts a Session and I go into Connect Directly. The following from FSIndier seems to indicate we are implementing it correctly ...
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Connect Directly as an Alternative to Using Gamespy.
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