History is a precious teacher and all to often American Hollywood tries to turn it about.

The American Revolution was actually a British Civil War. You were all British before the term American was used. Your Blue Coats or army was called the "Continental Army" and your congress the "Continental Congress".
America was referred to as a land mass, North and South America and according to many there still is no Central America. That was in one of the magazines just the other day.
Your heroes like John Paul Jones and George Washington were British along with most troops in your Continental Army.
With the defeat of the French, Britain could quite easily have taken the 13 Colonies back by force but British public opinion was dead set against that. The British public being over taxed at home could see why the colonists (their son's and daughters, aunts and uncles, cousins and friends) wanted no part of British rule.
When the United States invaded Canada (which they did twice) they were repulsed and many of your original 13 colonies were dead set against the American invasion.
The Americans were repulsed in Canada by the very people who left the 13 colonies the "United Empire Loyalists, some British troops and the great Native Peoples of this country."
During the past (50) years of flying, yes fifty years and some 24,000 hours in the left seat I have met a lot of people, many are Americans, we visit back and forth, AND I am VERY PROUD to call them all my FRIENDS.

Cheers...Happy Landings...Doug