Near miss... what do you think?

So in another aviation forum i frequent there is a little debate on the aviation term "Near miss"
some say that it should be called a "near hit" because two aircraft nearly hit one another.
What i heard: when i was a CFI an old B-24 bomber pilot used to come sit and drink coffee and watch the planes for about 10 - 20 minutes, one day he stopped in right during the middle of this exact same debate.
with that laugh that older folks can get about the foolish bickering of the young he explained
"Boys a near miss is an occurance that had the potential to do serious damage but did not"
with our attention as if he were about to settle the matter once and for all he continued...
"This term, as far as im aware, originated with high altitude bombing. During the review of post attack recon film and photos - if the attack missed the target but was very close we would give the strike a 'near miss' designation... meaning we were near the target, but we missed."
he then compared it to saying "close but no cigar in military terms"
that settled it for me. I have always held the thought that a near miss was rightfully called a near miss in the way that the two objects almost collided or impacted but did not.
so what do you guys think?
some say that it should be called a "near hit" because two aircraft nearly hit one another.
What i heard: when i was a CFI an old B-24 bomber pilot used to come sit and drink coffee and watch the planes for about 10 - 20 minutes, one day he stopped in right during the middle of this exact same debate.
with that laugh that older folks can get about the foolish bickering of the young he explained
"Boys a near miss is an occurance that had the potential to do serious damage but did not"
with our attention as if he were about to settle the matter once and for all he continued...
"This term, as far as im aware, originated with high altitude bombing. During the review of post attack recon film and photos - if the attack missed the target but was very close we would give the strike a 'near miss' designation... meaning we were near the target, but we missed."
he then compared it to saying "close but no cigar in military terms"
that settled it for me. I have always held the thought that a near miss was rightfully called a near miss in the way that the two objects almost collided or impacted but did not.
so what do you guys think?