Flightplans

I've got a few questions that have been nagging in my head for some time now:
Suppose I am a pilot. And I want to take my aircraft from let's say Amsterdam to New York. I have to file a flightplan, probably IFR. So far I can understand it. But I am not an airline company so the flight is unscheduled. How does New York know that I am coming that way when I file my flightplan in Amsterdam? How does any flightplan work? How does a controller know which way I have to go when I am handed over to them?
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Suppose I am a pilot. And I want to take my aircraft from let's say Amsterdam to New York. I have to file a flightplan, probably IFR. So far I can understand it. But I am not an airline company so the flight is unscheduled. How does New York know that I am coming that way when I file my flightplan in Amsterdam? How does any flightplan work? How does a controller know which way I have to go when I am handed over to them?
Crash
