How do I find an instructor?

My birthday is coming up and I was thinking of unique gifts to ask for. My wife has a hard time shopping for me since it seems I already have everything. So I was thinking I'd like to ask for flying lessons. The one problem though is I don't have a clue where to start. The nearest airport to me is MHT, a bit busy for my tastes. I don't want to be jostling with 737s for runway time on my first ever flight.
ASH is about half an hour away from my home and I'm sure they give lessons there. There's a college which has a pilot curriculum there (Daniel Webster), but I don't want to go through something that formal.
Basically I want to give flying lessons a try and the furthest I really want to go is to be able to solo. I don't have a lot of interest in getting a lisence, I'm just doing this for the fun of it. Couldn't afford to do this on a regular basis anyway.
I think what I'm looking for is an instructor who works on his own, not part of a formal program or school. I'd like someone I can take lessons from now and then when I have the time/money and not worry about keeping on some sort of timeline or working to some sylabus. How do I find something like this?
ASH is about half an hour away from my home and I'm sure they give lessons there. There's a college which has a pilot curriculum there (Daniel Webster), but I don't want to go through something that formal.
Basically I want to give flying lessons a try and the furthest I really want to go is to be able to solo. I don't have a lot of interest in getting a lisence, I'm just doing this for the fun of it. Couldn't afford to do this on a regular basis anyway.
I think what I'm looking for is an instructor who works on his own, not part of a formal program or school. I'd like someone I can take lessons from now and then when I have the time/money and not worry about keeping on some sort of timeline or working to some sylabus. How do I find something like this?