I'll tell you the same old thing I tell everybody... seems too obvious, but looking back, it was the most powerful realization I had after my first trip around the patch by myself...
By the time you're signed off to solo, you've already flown a few circuits and made fair landings on your own. The instructor was just sitting there, like a passenger.

If a CFI is really good, they won't even say anything during at least one of those dual sessions; not until afterwards.
There's no trick to get rid of the nervousness, other than to advance the throttle and just do it. But try to remember that: "I've already done this by myself!"

More advice: it is not a competition. Perfection is not what you're after. If you feel you need to go around at some point, just do it. If I were an instructor I'd be very happy to see a go-around on a first solo; shows good judgment. Good judgment is more important than courage or natural ability when it comes to flying.