Cant land with flaps!

Hi,
Everytime i try to land no matter what a/c i use when i set the flaps to land (full flaps) the plane goes verticle and there is nothing i can do?!?!? i push forwards on the stick and it slows down the rate of climb but i cannot get the nose down unless i dont use flaps.
I get the spped down to roughly 190knots and everything but i was thinking is it something to do with fuel? do i have to drop some????? if so how?
Regards,
sam.
Everytime i try to land no matter what a/c i use when i set the flaps to land (full flaps) the plane goes verticle and there is nothing i can do?!?!? i push forwards on the stick and it slows down the rate of climb but i cannot get the nose down unless i dont use flaps.
I get the spped down to roughly 190knots and everything but i was thinking is it something to do with fuel? do i have to drop some????? if so how?
Regards,
sam.