And I really have a hard time understanding why some of you thinks the Saitek X-45 is better

Have you ever flown with the Cougar?
The Cougar is the definition of what a joystick should be: sensitive, great ergonomics and STURDY! Cripes this beast weighs in at about 8kgs (18-pounds)
I will never go back to plastic controlers again, that's how spoiled you get when flying with the cougar.
And I wont even get started on the great software that comes along.
Remember, there's a reason why this stick is in the F16 cockpit. Yes it is expensive, but it will pay-off in the long run.
My friend has the Saitek X-45 so I have a decent understanding about its performance.
To compare the X-45 and the Cougar is to compare a Cessna 172 to a turbojet ;D