Excellent link Matt...very good...

I was educated out behind the barn and that is the way I helped bring up our lot.

Respect for authority and think before you speak was very important.
However and I say however we never heard:
-a child should be seen and not heard
-do as I say and not as I do
-go ask your father or go ask your mother...a decision was usually made immediately by that parent and it was not questioned
Our individual lives revolved around each other and lively discussions were held at the kitchen table.
My third oldest brother and I had many a discussion out behind the barn, there was only a years difference in our ages.
When it was over either dad or one of my other brothers would say I had to stop leading with my head.

When I asked one of my older brothers how I did I almost always got the same reply: Okay...you lasted about as long as a paper shirt in a bear fight...

Again great link Matt.
Cheers...Happy Landings...Doug