It's not hard to fly from the third person. It's tricky to get used to at first but once you get the hang of it, it's a breeze. Just remember, left stick drop left wing, right stick drop right wing.
I wouldn't worry about finding a place to fly in Huston either. I did a search on the AMA website and I found 8 fully chartered AMA clubs in Huston.
Crashes are nothing to worry about if you have a good instructor. Learning to fly model aircraft is very hard to do alone and I wouldn't recomend it. Cameras in the plane don't help either because they give a flase sense of security. As for learning on the cheapest thing available, not smart either. While some low cost trainers are decent, others cut corners. Make sure you do your research.
As for aircraft control distance, I'm not sure. I think about 10km which is about 6mi. Some radios are more powerful than others. I've never experianced signal loss and I've never know anyone to experiance this. Most clubs have flying boundries that are well within the power of all R/C aircraft radios.
Lastly, a crashed aircraft is not a waste of money. It's a valuable lesson. You might crash your plane or you might not.
If your still interested, I'll send you some info. Try talking to Hagar and Rifleman too. You may may also want to visit these forums. They've got some good info for beginners.
www.rcgroups.comwww.rccanada.ca
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