Fear/Phobias

just wondering if anyone is willing to say what is their greatest fear and to see if anyone can answer a question thats been bugging me for months.
Mine include arachnophobia and drowning.
the question is:
Why is it more frightening to ask a girl out than to jump from 5000' ?
Mine include arachnophobia and drowning.
the question is:
Why is it more frightening to ask a girl out than to jump from 5000' ?