and I flat out refuse to drive there for any reason.
Choices.
TB, that's a choice you've made. Why should the rest of society pay for your choice? You have an option, you've just chosen not to utilize it.
JJ, I have no problems whatsoever sending tax money to someone who is physically or mentally unable to work. That's not an issue. Where I have an issue is sending tax money to someone who DOESN'T work. If I need more money, I have to make sacrifices of one sort or another. I either have to sacrifice some of the luxuries I afford myself, or I have to sacrifice some free time and head to McDonald's for a part time job.
There are options out there. To sit back and expect a societal handback is not only a choice, but a subsidized choice that affects us all.