As real as possible?

what steps do you guys take to make simming as real as possible?
how do i start the game with engines all off etc so i basically have to do everything. everytime i start my engines are already running and everything has been done ready to go. also where can i find tutorials or procedures what to do for different plane types.
thanks
how do i start the game with engines all off etc so i basically have to do everything. everytime i start my engines are already running and everything has been done ready to go. also where can i find tutorials or procedures what to do for different plane types.
thanks