Obviously the use of flaps varies with aircraft type, airport, etc... but in any case, distance from the threshold really doesn't figure into it.
Not in the smaller stuff, but for our virtual heavy pilots it does (if they want to make it reasonably realistic) - otherwise you start scaring the passengers (and ATC!).

I disagree- I've never seen a specific
distance shown for flap deployment in the POH even for a heavy jet.
I wasn't suggesting that you can deploy flaps whenever, or at the last minute or something... but in a heavy, or a fighter, or any airplane, flaps are simply used as needed to maintain the glide angle, descent rate and airspeed that is appropriate.
Generally, it begins about the same time the gear is lowered, although maybe one notch just before that.
How far from the runway you are at that time can depend on a number of factors.
It's quite possible to fly the same sort of descent profile in a light single as in a heavy, albeit at a lower airspeed. 500 fpm works very nicely most of the time. Us "little guys" don't want to scare our pax, or controllers, any more than the heavy iron drivers.