I am hoping to start Flight training in a while and id like to know what i can do to make FS a good base to help me learn some of the stuff I will learn. I know FS isnt as realistic as it can be (i've flown real planes before... a C172, Beech BE65 queenair, and a T-6 texan) so are there any add-ons or hardware that will boost the realism a bit (i have the PMDG 744, but that doesn't really help my causes). How about actually flying in the game, any recommendations for how to do that in a more realistic fashion? For reading i have the FAA's Basic pilot handbook, Instrument flying handbook, and instrument procedures handbook (needed to learn how to fly a Sid/STAR on Vatsim and the others i got for my b-day a few years ago.) so are there any other books you'd recommend?
Sorry for all the questions but i've been thinking of some things to ask for a while

Any help much appreciated

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