General Trim Questions

I have found trimming airplanes to fly straight and level to be frustrating in MS flight sims, particularly in CFS1 and 2. (There the fighter planes all seem to want to climb, climb, climb).
I have FS2002 and there the planes have trim wheels on the panels and it is a little easier, but it still seems difficult. This doesn't seem to be much of an issue with real planes. In other words, I get the feeling that it is actually harder to properly trim planes in MS flight sims than in real aviation situations.
Any advice on how to get better at trimming aircraft?
Thanks,
Ditto58
I have FS2002 and there the planes have trim wheels on the panels and it is a little easier, but it still seems difficult. This doesn't seem to be much of an issue with real planes. In other words, I get the feeling that it is actually harder to properly trim planes in MS flight sims than in real aviation situations.
Any advice on how to get better at trimming aircraft?
Thanks,
Ditto58