With I slow down it seems that my nose just drops down. I compensate with trim and i fin myself too high.
Not sure you're listening, a1 - but I'll try again in case it helps other people.
The thing you have to remember is that aeroplanes are not like cars or bicycles. They work in three dimensions, not two. It is our luck that FS models that difference perfectly. PLEASE get the hang of two things.
As I tried to explain:-
1. The way to slow down on a landing approach is NOT to cut power, it is to raise the nose.
2. The way to reduce the rate of descent is to add power.
I suspect that you are trying to 'drive' the thing like a car. To 'slow down' you reduce power, to land you aim the nose straight down at the runway. Both those things are just plain wrong.
What's more, you have to give the aeroplane time to react. It is not in contact with the ground, it's working in a fluid medium. When I say 'raise the nose' or 'add power' I don't mean huge sudden movements, I mean a light touch here and there, after which you wait for the aircraft to respond.
I'd strongly recommend three things:-
1. Do some of the flying lessons. They're not perfect, but they give you a start (especially the first few, including the landing ones).
2. Fly the Cessnas first, NOT the big jets. Al real pilots start with the small stuff, for good reasons.
3. Don't spend all evening just flying around and then find out the hard way that every landing is a disaster. Save a flight say twenty miles out, and then use it again and again to practise your landings until they're perfect - or, at the least, pretty good. Saves time in the long run.