hsthompson, that sounds fairly easy to solve - you don't mention Air Traffic Control. To contact ATC, press the ~ key (top right) and press the appropriate numbers.
Flying IFR (under full ATC control) ATC will give you the landing runway, and then give you courses, heights, and vectors to a point where you can intercept the runway line. Flying VFR, contact ATC at 30 miles out and they'll give you the runway - then use the map or the GPS screen to line yourself up.
Once on the ground, you'll be told to contact Ground Control and they'll give you the route to parking or gates. Press the relevant number and a pink path will show up for you to follow.
One of the early lessons in FS9 covers ATC procedures quite well. For more gen on landings, see:-
http://www.simviation.com/cgi-bin/yabb/ ... 1111322151Obviously the Visual Flight Path won't be visible when you're OVER the airport - it will be there all right, but it'll be directly below you!