The habit of using emoticons to underline what we're writing it's a standard procedure (no pun intended

) to let others know how serious we are when we say something.
I can relate somehow to your not wanting to use emoticons because at the beginning of my career of forum user I myself had problem using them. With time I had to adapt, though. It was either adapt or having my writ mistook when sometime I was joking. And it happened both and either when writing English or in my native Italian.
The written word is a lot less expressive than the spoken one, after all. Even more so when writing short messages, like we do here or in other forums.
Resistance is futile, you will be assimilated.

I'd suggest you adapt, it will be easier on you.

There's but one real cure for human stupidity. It's called DEATH.
At the moment mourning the assassination of sarcasm and irony for the good of the "higher".
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