Has been a while since i`ve visited this forum and i hope i can be of a little help. Can i assume that you have printed off the Heli tutorials from FS9. and also cheched out
www.hovercontrol.com .,if so,and your still having trouble with tutorials then why not consider picking something up from a MODEL shop. having been involved in Radio-Controlled Helicopters many moons ago i can tell you that the principles of flight are the same,the only difference is that we dont get too feel the natural forces on our body when flying in FS9,we have to rely on our vision and perseption.