@Colt177521
Ah, I understand what you're looking for.
Afaik,this has not yet been built by any developer until now,
but indeed, it would be a nice request.
I think you have to follow the tanker in any case and
you can't request it if you need it.
But there is an in flight refueling tool with which one
you can fill up your fuel tanks with any AI plane.
see here In-Flight Refueling Gauge for FSX
https://simviation.com/1/search?submit= ... p&x=16&y=7